About John Calvi’s Work, 1982 – 2020
Some Numbers
35 years teaching Vermont People with AIDS Coalition
30 years teaching New England Yearly Meeting
29 years teaching Pendle Hill
29 years teaching at Friends General Conference Summer Gathering
2 Friends General Conference plenaries 1990 (St. Paul, MN) and 2011 (Grinnell, IA)
3 weddings officiated
2 births assisted
3 Gay Pride Celebrations: Boston, Cincinnati, Burlington (VT): invited performance of original songs
1985 prison work began: 5 locations in US & Canada: AIDS education, massage, deep relaxation
6 countries taught in: Costa Rica, Mexico, Canada, France, United Kingdom, US
9 summers taught: guitar, banjo, dulcimer at Killooleet Summer Camp, Hancock, VT (1975-83)
14 yearly meeting keynotes and workshops
15 years as Released Friend: 1987 - 2002
2005: founding convener Quaker Initiative to End Torture - QUIT!
Recordings of John’s Songs
1988 Suede: “The Ones Who Aren’t Here”
1987 The Short Sisters: “A Little Gracefulness” (title cut)
1985 Kim Wallach: “French Fries”
1981 Meg Christian: “The Ones Who Aren’t Here” (Carnegie Hall concert)
Key Dates
1989 Married Marshall Brewer under the care of Putney Meeting, August 26
1984 Certified Massage Therapist: Boulder School of Massage Therapy, April
1983 began work in the AIDS crisis, October
1982 began work in the rape crisis and with torture survivors
1952 born May 14, grew up on grandmother’s farm in Connecticut
PO Box 301 Putney VT 05346
The Dance Between Hope & Fear 2013
How Far Have Your Traveled 2019
Published True Quaker Press
Available Quaker Books- paper, Amazon- Kindle & paper
NEW TITLE EXPECTED IN 2021-2022
2019 Feb 3 San Francisco Friends Mtg- afternoon workshop SF CA
March 2 Sacramento Friends Meeting- workshop Sacramento CA
March 3 Redwood Friends Meeting- new book reading Santa Rosa CA
May 31 – June 2 Great Plains Yearly Mtg- plenary, workshops Wichita KS
June 3 – 4 Seed House- workshops, individual sessions Wichita KS
June 31 – July 6 Friends General Conference Summer Gathering Grinnell IA
July 25 – 28 Vermont People with AIDS Coalition Annual Retreat Stowe VT
August 3 – 8 New England Yearly Meeting- workshops Castleton VT
Sept 29 Farmington Friends Meeting- Quakers and Healing Farmington NY
2020 January & February Writing retreat. Claremont, CA
February 24 Friends in need Las Vegas NV
March 27 NEYM Pastoral Care COVID-19 YouTube
April 6 Pendle Hill Love in the Time of Coronavirus YouTube
April 20 Pendle Hill Staying Centered Amidst Uncertainty online
May 9 & 10 Cambridge Friends Mtg workshop Cambridge MA online
June 28 – July 4 FGC Summer Gathering workshop online
July 10 & 11 North Carolina Yrly Mtg Con online
July 21 & 23 Vermont Positive Living Coalition online
September 9 Santa Fe Meeting Ministry & Counsel online
October 23 Vermont Positive Living Coalition online
2018 January 6 Orange Grove Friends Meeting workshops Pasadena CA
January 13 Orange County Friends Meeting workshops Irvine CA
January 21 Central Coast Friends Meeting reading San Luis Obispo CA
January 26-28 University Friends Meeting workshops Seattle WA
February 3 Santa Cruz Friends Meeting workshops Santa Cruz CA
February 11 Santa Fe Friends Meeting speaking of my work Santa Fe NM
February 16-18 Mountain View Friends Meeting workshops Denver CO
February 23-25 Boulder Friends Meeting workshops Boulder CO
March 31 Framingham Friends Meeting workshop Framingham MA
April 21 Westport Friends Meeting NEYM Min & Counsel Westport MA
May 18-20 Pendle Hill Goodness workshop Wallingford PA
July 1-7 Friends General Conf Summer Gathering Toledo U, Toledo OH
July 19-22 Vermont People with AIDS Coalition workshops Springfield VT
August 4-8 New England Yearly Meeting workshops Castleton VT
September 1 Storrs Meeting retreat Woolman Hill Deerfield MA
October 5-7 Powell House workshop Old Chatham NY
Nov 3 Iowa Yearly Mtg (Conservative) Ministry & Counsel Indianola IA
November 4 Nebraska Gathering of Friends Lincoln NE
2017 March 24-26 Powell House Rest & Restoration Old Chatham NY
April 4 – 5 Kenyon College healing – Staff, students Gambier OH
May 26-28 Pendle Hill annual workshop on healing Wallingford PA
July 2 – 8 Friends General Conference workshops Niagra Univ Niagra NY
August 5 – 10 New England Yearly Meeting workshop Castleton VT
Sept 29–Oct 1 Scarsdale Mtg Retreat lead Powell House Old Chatham NY
Nov 10 – 12 Flagstaff Meeting Workshop, Book Reading Flagstaff AZ
December Writing retreat solitary California, a month alone
2016 Jan 30 Orlando Friend Meeting reading books 1 & 2 Orlando FL
Feb 6 Gainesville Friends Meeting healing workshop Gainesville FL
April 5 Community College of VT – Intercultural - Brattleboro VT
April 10 Putney Friends Mtg – History of Released Friends Putney VT
May 20-22 Pendle Hill GOODNESS workshop Wallingford PA
July 3-9 FGC workshops, readings, QUIT Update St Joe MN
July 21-24 VT People with AIDS Coalition – workshops Stowe VT
Oct 29 – 30 Lancaster Meeting – workshop, QUIT Lancaster PA
2015 Feb 14 NEYM Young Friends Good Touch Wellesley MA
March 2 Community College of VT Gay Intercultural Brattleboro VT
Mar 26 – 27 Toronto Friends Mtg – Workshops Toronto Ontario
April 17 Guilford College QLSP, Friendship Mtg Greensboro NC
Apr 18-19 Durham Frds Congolese Tortured Refugees Durham NC
April 21-27 Second book work editor Shelly Angel Richardson TX
May 9 Wellesley Meeting – Massage and Energy Wellesley MA
May 29-31 Pendle Hill- Deep Rest, Deep Stillness Wallingford PA
July 5-11 FGC workshop reading QUIT W Carolina Univ Cullowhee NC
July 17 Vermont People with AIDS Coalition – retreat Stowe VT
Aug 1 – 6 New England Yearly Meeting - workshops Castleston VT
September 7 Friends in Need hospital and home visits Williston VT
Sept 26 Putney Friends Meeting Retreat deep relaxation Putney VT
Oct 23-25 Powell House Restoration of Calm & Rest Old Chatham NY
Nov 13-15 Richmond Friends Meeting – Retreat Richmond VA
2014 March 14 –16 Powell House massage, energy Old Chatham NY
April 17-20 South Central Yearly Meeting - Workshops Bruceville TX
April 22 – 29 Second book work week Shelly Angel Richardson TX
May 2-4 Atlanta Friends Meeting- workshops readings Atlanta GA
May 30 –June 1 Pendle Hill GOODNESS Workshop Wallingford PA
June 29 – July 5 FGC Abandon All Weariness California PA
Aug 2 – 7 New England Yearly Meeting workshops Castleton VT
November 19 Taft Institute QUIT Queens College Flushing NY
Nov 21-23 St Petersburg Friend Meeting workshops St Petersburg FL
2013 February 27 – March 7 Final Edits with Editor Richardson TX
March 9 Friends in Need Atlanta GA
March 10 Friends in Need Candler NC
March 11 Friends in Need Winston-Salem NC
April 20 Friends in need Williston VT
May 14 – 18 Final Edits with Readers Provincetown MA
May 31 Friends in need Brookhaven PA
May 31 – June 1 Pendle Hill Workshop, Mon Lecture Wallingford PA
June 2 Friends in need Newtown PA
June 18 – 21 Albuquerque Friends Meeting Albuquerque NM
June 22 Santa Fe Friends Meeting QUIT, Goodness Santa Fe NM
June 29 Book Release THE DANCE BETWEEN HOPE & FEAR
June 30 – July 6 FGC workshop, book release Greeley CO
July 7 Boulder Friends Mtg Ministry Among Friends Boulder CO
July 26 Vermont People with AIDS Coalition workshops Stowe VT
August 5 – 7 Workshops, book release & reading Smithfield RI
August 16 Friends in need Williston VT
September 18 Friends in need Putney VT
October 14 QUIT Update OLLI Lectures Dummerston VT
Dec 7 New England YM Jr Hi Retreat GOOD TOUCH Deerfield MA
2012 Feb 4 Quaker Studies Goodness Wellesley Mtg Wellesley, MA
March 30 Friends in Need Williston VT
April 29 Doylestown Friends Meeting QUIT Update Doylestown, PA
MAY 10-13 QUAKERS UNITED IN PUBLISHING QUIP PENDLE HILL
MAY 14-17 BOOK WORK WITH SHELLY ANGEL AT PENDLE HILL
May 18 – 20 Pendle Hill Goodness workshop Wallingford PA
June 15 Friends in Need Williston VT
July 13 VT People w/Aids Coalition workshops Stowe, VT
August 8-9 Dragonfly Transitions workshops Klamath Falls, OR
Aug 13-18 Pacific Yearly Mtg Plenary Walker Ranch Petaluma, CA
Oct 2 Taft Institute American Torture Queens College Flushing NY
Oct 16 – 22 Shelly Angel book editor in Putney together
October 24 Dominican University Gender Studies San Raphael CA
Oct 25 Grass Valley Friends Mtg, Woolman Semester Grass Valley CA
October 26-28 Quaker Center Healing workshop Ben Lomond CA
November 9 & 10 Stony Run Friends Mtg Baltimore MD
November 11 Homewood Friends Mtg QUIT Update Baltimore, MD
November 16-18 Powell House Healing Hands Old Chatham NY
2011 February 1 US Senate QUIT Meetings Washington DC
March 11-13 Powell House Goodness Throughout Old Chatham, NY
Mar 20 New Orleans Friends Meeting QUIT Update New Orleans, LA
April 1-3 Guilford College Sex and QUIT Update Greensboro, NC
April 3-4 Durham Friends Mtg Goodness & Sessions Durham, NC
April 4-5 Raleigh Friends Meeting Goodness & Sessions Raleigh, NC
May 6-8 Pendle Hill Washed in the Light Wallingford, PA
July 3-9 FGC Evening Plenary –American Torture Grinnell, IA
July 15 VT People with AIDS Coalition Retreat workshops Stowe, VT
August 6-11 New England Yearly Meeting workshops
October 31 – Nov 1 Dragonfly Transitions wkshp Klamath Falls, OR
November 4-6 Quaker Center workshop Ben Lomond, CA
2010 March 13 Meeting School QUIT! Update & Healing Rindge NH
April 17-19 Lake Forest Friends Mtg Retreat Leader Lake Forest IL
June 20-24 Pendle Hill Washed in Light by Tender Wallingford PA
July 4-10 FGC Abandon All Weariness QUIT Bowling Green OH
July 16 VT People with AIDS Coalition Deep Relaxation Stowe VT
July 18-24 New York Yrly Mtg QUIT Plenary w/QUNO Silver Lake NY
August 8-12 New England Yearly Meeting workshops Smithfield RI
Sept 18 Missoula Meeting QUIT Goodness Healing Missoula MT
Sept 20-22 Dragonfly Transitions staff workshops Klamath Falls OR
Sept 24-26 QUIT 4th National Conf Quaker Ctr Ben Lomond CA
October 3 Pima Meeting Goodness, QUIT Update Tucson AZ
October 7 Santa Fe Meeting QUIT Update, Goodness Santa Fe NM
October 9 Albuquerque Meeting Healing, QUIT Albuquerque NM
Oct 23 Burlington Friends Meeting Torture, Healing Burlington VT
November 16 Taft Institute QUIT! Queens College Flushing NY
November 18 QUIT Steering Comm Future Planning Old Chatham NY
November 19-21 QUIT! Regional Conference Old Chatham NY
2009 Mar 12-13 Quaker Initiative to End Torture Mtg Wash, DC
March 28 Mountain View Meeting of Quakers- Healing Denver, CO
Mar 29 CO Regional Gathering of Quakers- Speaker Denver, CO
April 24-26 Woolman Hill Abandon All Weariness Deerfield, MA
May 30 Pendle Hill Lay Down the Burden & Rest Wallingford, PA
June 14 Putney Frds Mtg Quaker Initiative to End Torture Putney, VT
June 15 CONTACT International Peace Conf SIT Brattleboro, VT
June 27-July 4 FGC Abandon All Weariness, QUIT Blacksburg, VA
July 15-19 North Pacific Yearly Mtg keynote Missoula, MT
August 3-5 New England Yearly Meeting Smithfield, RI
August 9 N. Sandwich Friends Meeting QUIT N Sandwich, NH
September 18 Friends House QUIT Update Santa Rosa, CA
September 19-20 Redwood Forest Mtg SHealing Santa Rosa, CA
September 25-27 Quaker Ctr Restoration Ben Lomond, CA
Sep 30 -Oct 2 Multnomah & Bridge Ctiy Mtg 4 Healing Portland, OR
Oct 1 West Hill Friend Church QUIT Update, Gay people Portland OR
October 3-4 Willamette Quarterly Mtg Plenary Speaker Mt Hood, OR
October 6-7 Dragonfly Transitions Students Klamath Falls, OR
October 7 Klamath Falls Friends Church QUIT Klamath Falls, OR
Nov 6-8 2009 Powell House The Body as Temple Old Chatham, NY
Nov 14 Wellness Works Holistic Health Center Glendale, CA
Nov 14 Santa Monica Mtg On Healing Santa Monica, CA
Nov 15 Claremont Meeting QUIT Update Claremont, CA
2008 SABBATICAL CELEBRATING 25 YEARS OF TRAUMA WORK
2007 Jan 14 Putney Friends Mtg QUIT Update Putney, VT
Feb 2-4 Eugene Friends Meeting Annual Winter Retreat, Eugene, OR
Feb 5 Dragonfly Adventures Stress Reduction Klamath Falls, OR
Feb 5 Klamath Falls Friends Church QUIT Update Klamath Falls, OR
March 5-9 Pendle Hill Rest the Body, In the Light Wallingford, PA
March 15 Friends World Committee 4 Consult QUIT update Provi, RI
March 21-23 University Friends Meeting Healing Circle Seattle, WA
March 30- April 1 St Louis Friends Mtg QUIT Update ST Louis, MO
April 27-29 Canadian QUIT Conf Ottawa Friends Mtg Ottawa, ONT
June 1-3 Quaker Initiative to End Torture 2nd conf Greensboro, NC
June 9 Helping dear friend Gene Garber to die at home Putney, VT
June 11 CONTACT: Conflict Transform Across Cultures SIT Bratt VT
June 17 2007 15th St Meetinghouse QUIT! Update New York, NY
June 30- July 7 FGC, Abandon All Weariness, QUIT, River Falls, WI
July 12-15 VT People with AIDS Coalition- workshops Stowe, VT
Sept 28-30 Missouri Valley Friends Conf talk Chihowa Lawrence, KS
Oct 1 Assisted birth Sungmin Ahn Memorial Hosp Brattleboro, VT
Oct 12-13 Quaker Hill Conf Midwest Healers Group Richmond IN
Nov 2-4 Powell House Deeply Relax- spiritual depth Old Chatham NY
Nov 14-15 Dragonfly Adventures Stress Reduction Klamath Falls, OR
Nov 16-18 Abandon All Weariness, Quaker Center Ben Lomond, CA
2006 Feb 22-24 Guilford College, Sex QLSP Greensboro, NC
Feb 24-26 QUIT planning June Conf Guilford College Greensboro, NC
March 5 Kendal Monthly Meeting- QUIT Kennett Square, PA
March 6-9 Pendle Hill, Restoration workshop Wallingford, PA
March 14 Hanover Friends Meeting QUIT Update Hanover, NH
April 2 Morningside Friends Mtg QUIT Riverside Church NY NY
April 4 San Francisco Friends Meeting QUIT Update SF CA
April 13-16 University Mtg- workshops/meet 4 healing Seattle, WA
April 28-30 Olney Friends School Quaker Spirituality Barnesville, OH
May 19-21 Farmington/Scipio Friends Retreat Watkins Glenn, NY
June 2-4 1st Quit Conference Guilford College Greensboro, NC
June 11 Contact program SIT QUIT update Brattleboro, VT
July 1-7 Friends General Conference workshop Puget Sound, WA
July 13-16 VT People with AIDS Coalition retreat Stowe, VT
July 26 New York Yearly Meeting QUIT Update Silver Bay, New York
Aug 2-6 Baltimore Yrly Mtg- grief Tom Fox hostage Harrisonburg VA
Aug 7-10 New England Yrly Mtg workshop, QUIT Smithfield, RI
Sept 8-10 Vassalboro Quarterly Meeting Friends Camp, S. China ME
Sept23 Peter & Suzanne’s Wedding, officiating Brattleboro, VT
October 13-15 ST Louis Friends Meeting, retreat ST Louis, MO
Oct 20-22 Powell House QUIT, Chuck & Scilla too Old Chatham, NY
Nov 3-5 Powell House Deep Relaxation & Spirit Old Chatham, NY
November 17-19 Quaker Center, Goodness, Ben Lomand, CA
2005 Feb 11-13 Ottawa Meeting Annual Retreat Ottawa Ontario
Feb 25-27 QLSP Guilford College, SEX Healing Greensboro, NC
March 5 Friends Mtg of Cambridge Quaker Studies Wellesley, MA
March 18-20 Fredrick Meeting Annual Meeting Retreat Fredrick, MD
April 15-17 Friends World Committee for Consultation Tempe, AZ
April 25 School 4 Intnl Training Healing from Trauma Brattleboro, VT
May 5 Quaker Initiative to End Torture- QUIT! created via phone
May 27-30 Receiving Spiritual Discipline Pendle Hill – Wallingford, PA
June 3-5 Columbia Meeting Annual Retreat Columbia, MO
June 13-19 Intermountain Yearly Meeting readings Abiquiu, NM
July 2–9 Friends General Conference Goodness Blacksburg, VA
July 14-17 VT People w/AIDS Coalition- staff Killington, VT
July 28 New York Yearly Meeting Torture Conf Update Silver Bay NY
Aug 6-11 New England Yearly Meeting Bryant College Smithfield, MA
Sept 3 Minhee & Sehoon’s wedding, officiating Brattleboro, VT
September 15-16 School of the Spirit, Spiritual Disciplines Aston, PA
September 24-26 Stop Torture Campaign U U Service Cmte Wash DC
October 15 Powel House Torture conf update Old Chatham, NY
Oct 19 Trauma Studies Ctr Institute for Cont Psychotherapy NY NY
November 4-6 Deeply Relax Powell House Old Chatham, NY
2004 April 22-24 Reconciliation Restorative Justice Philadelphia, PA.
April 30 – May 2 Goodness Workshp, Powell House Old Chatham NY
May 7 School International Training Avoiding Burnout Brattleboro VT
May 28 – 31 The Goodness Workshop, Pendle Hill Wallingford PA
June 6 – 12 Intermountain Yearly Meeting, Keynote Abiquiu, NM
July 3 – 10 Friends General Conference Univ. of MA Amherst MA
July 15 - 18 Vermont People w/ AIDS Coalition Retreat Killington VT
August 7-12 New England Yearly Mtg Bryant College Smithfield, MA
Sept 17 – 19 Northern Yearly Mtg - Spiritual Nurture Eau Claire WI
Oct 22–24 Portland Meeting Retreat Quarter Meeting Portland ME
Nov 7 Burlington Meeting, Minding the Light Burlington, VT
November 13 Piedmont Fellowship of Friends Durham NC
Nov 15 – 18 Quaker House workshops healing work Fayetteville, NC
2003 January 17-20 Friends World Committee on Consultation, Peace Conf panelist Greensboro, NC
Jan 20 Guilford College, Staff Faculty Retreat Greensboro, NC
February 14-17 FLGC Plenary, Ghost Ranch, Abiquiu, NM
March 21- 23 The Goodness Workshop Woolman Hill Deerfield, MA
March 28-29 American Camping Assoc NO Burnout Sturbridge, MA
April 1 Earlham School Religion, Human Sexuality Richmond, IN
April 2 Earlham College Sex and True Love Richmond, IN
April 3-6 Quaker Pastoral Care & Counseling Annual Retreat, leader, Quaker Hill Richmond, IN
April 11 American Massage Therapy Association Atlanta, GA
April 13 Atlanta Meeting Forum A Quaker in War Time Atlanta, GA
April 25 Friends in Need CT
May 9-11 Mountainview Meeting Annual Mtg Retreat Denver, CO
May 23-26 Pendle Hill, Good Touch- Massage Wallingford, PA
May 31 Glenn & Mona’s Wedding, officiating Woodstock, VT
June 6-8 Powell House Trust Rest Spirit Discipline Old Chatham, NY
June 18 Friends in Need Vermont
June 28-July 5 FGC Goodness Workshop Univ Pitts Johnstown, PA
July 17-20 VT People with AIDS Coalition moderator Killington, VT
Aug 3-7 New England Yearly Meeting Stonehill College Easton, MA
August 10 Friends in Need Vermont
August 27 Friend in Need Vermont
August 31 Friends in Need Vermont
September 4-7 Guilford College QLS fall retreat Greensboro, NC
Sept 14 Amer Massage Therapy Ass Trauma Massage Falmouth, MA
October 3-5 St Louis Meeting 5th annual workshop St Louis, MO
Oct 8 Intercultural School for International Training Brattleboro, VT
October 18 Elizabeth Watson & John Calvi evening talk Mpls, MN
October 22-26 Amer Massage Therapy Assoc trauma Richmond, VA
November 6 Friend in Need NH
November 20-24 Friends in Need. CT, NJ, PA
2002 Feb 1-3 Quaker Healers New England Wool Hill Deerfield MA
February 15-18 2002 Friends in Need following 9/11 NY, NY
Feb 22-24 Guilford College, Quakers Sexuality Greensboro, NC
February 25 2002 Carolina Friends School, Staff Retreat Durham, NC
March 8-10 2002 Goodness, Powell House Old Chatham, NY
Mar 14-17 Amer Massage Therapy Trauma Mass Boxborough, MA
March 21-24 Atlanta Meeting of Quakers, Retreat Atlanta, GA
March 26-30 Friends Fellowship Healing, BYM York Oxford, England
April 20 Focus on Families energy work Woolman Hill Deerfield, MA
May 22-24 2002 Quaker Worker's Retreat PYM FGC Kirkridge, PA
May 24-27 2002 Pendle Hill, Goodness Wallingford, PA
June 5 Southern Vermont AIDS Project, staff retreat Brattleboro, VT
June 20-23 Southern Appalachian Yearly Mtg Assoc Swannanoa, NC
June 29-July 6 Friends General Conference Goodness Normal, IL
July 18-21 VT People With AIDS Coalition Retreat Stratton, VT
August 1-3 Ohio Valley Yearly Mtg Earlham College Richmond, IN
Aug 4-8 New England Yearly Meeting Wheaton College Norton MA
September 14 Elizabeth Watson John Calvi dialogue Mpls, MN
Sept 18-22 Friends General Conf Restoration Retreat Rosholt,WI
Oct 4-6 St Louis Meeting, Workshop, Mtg for Healing St Louis, MO
December 1-6 Pendle Hill, Restoration caregivers Wallingford, PA
2001 Feb 2 VT Community Action Stress reduction Randolph, VT
February 16-19 Friends for Lesbian & Gay Concern Philadelphia, PA
Feb 23-25 Powell House Northeast Quaker Healers Old Chatham, NY
March 11 VT Ethics Network & Brattleboro Hospital Brattleboro, VT
April 6-8 Quaker Peace Round Table- workshops State College, PA
April 28 VT People w/AIDS Coali Deep Relaxation White River Jct ,VT
May 25-28 Pendle Hill Quaker Goodness Wallingford, PA
June 7-10 Southern Appalachain Yrly Mtg workshop Swannanoa, NC
June 30-July 7 Friends Gen Conf- Healing Life Wounds Blacksburg ,Va
July 19-22 Vermont People with AIDS Coalition Springfield, VT
Aug 4-9 New England Yearly Meeting workshops Smithfield, RI
Sept 14-16 Putney Friends Meeting Retreat workshops Plymouth, VT
October 5-7 St Louis Meeting workshops St Louis, MO
October 24-29 Dallas Meeting- Quakers and Healing Dallas, TX
Nov 7-10 National Gay Lesbian Task Force Milwaukee, WI
Nov 11-16 Pendle Hill- Week course Restoration Wallingford, PA
2000 Feb 2/9/16/23 Putney Friends Mtg Life Wounds Putney, VT
Mar 11 VT Freedom to Marry- Surviving Hate Speech S Royalton, VT
Mar 24-25 Chrysalis Spiritual Disciplines Avoid Burnout Richmond VA
Mar 26 Richmond Friends Meeting- journal reading. Richmond, VA
Apr 14 Friends in need. Boston, MA
Apr 22 Friends Peace Team- Burundi Trauma Ctr- Greenwich, CT
May 6 One New Hampshire- gay conf, workshop Concord, NH
May 19 Connecticut Legal Services- Avoiding Burnout Waterbury, CT
May 26-29 Pendle Hill Massage and Energy work Wallingford, PA
Jun 3 Northampton Frds Mtg Retreat- On Goodness Deerfield, MA
Jun 3-5 Friends in need Boston, MA
Jul 1-8 Friends General Conf- Healing Life Wounds Rochester, NY
Jul 9 Friends in need Boston, MA
Jul 17-19 Friends in need Boston, MA
Jul 20-23 Vermont PWA Coalition Retreat Springfield, VT
Sep 16-20 Friends Peace Team Burundi Trauma Center- Wash, DC
Sep 23 Elizabeth Watson & John Calvi- workshop Mpls, MN
Oct 1 Atlanta Friends Meeting- after meeting forum Atlanta, GA
Oct 14 Framingham Friends Meeting- Goodness Framingham, MA
Oct 21-22 St Louis Friends Mtg Wkshp Mtg 4 healing St. Louis, MO
Oct 27-29 State College Meeting- Workshops State College, PA
Nov 8 School for International Training- speaker Brattleboro, VT
Nov 9-13 Nat'l Gay Lesbian Task Force Conf NO Burnout Atlanta, GA
Nov 17-19 Powell House- Goodness workshop Old Chatham, NY
1999 January 2 Young Adult Friends, NEYM Wellesley, MA
February 25 San Francisco Mtg concert & journal reading SF, CA
Feb 26 – 28 Quaker Center: Healing Life Wounds Ben Lomond, CA
March 10 – 14 FGC Nurturing Nurturers St. Helena’s Island, SC
March 18 – 21 Quakers in Pastoral Care & Counseling. Richmond, IN
March 22 Earlham College Rape, AIDS, Burnout Richmond, IN
March 23 – 24 ESR Healing & Quakerism. Richmond, IN
March 27 – 31 Guilford College healing, friend-in-res Greensboro, NC
March 29 Carolina Friends School. Chapel Hill, NC
April 17 – 18 Micoast Mtg: Spiritual Disciplines Damariscotta, ME
May 7 – 9 Pendle Hill: Healing Life’s Wounds. Wallingford, PA
June 18 – 20 Powell House: Healing Life’s Wounds. Old Chatham, NY
July 3 – 10 Friends Gen Conf Healing Life Wounds. Kalamazoo, MI
July 22 – 25 Vermont People with AIDS workshops. Springfield, VT
July 26 – 27 NYYM Mtg for Healing, Avoiding Burnout. Silver Bay, NY
August 4 – 5 BYM Healing, Avoiding Burnout. Chambersburg, PA
August 9 – 10 NEYM Meeting for Healing, No Burnout. Smithfield, RI
October 11 – 14 Chrysalis People with AIDS: workshops. Newark, NJ
November 10 – 14 National Gay & Lesbian Task Force Oakland, CA
1998 Feb 4 Simon Rock College, Gay Spirit Life Great Barrington MA
February 13-16 FLGC: Mtg for Healing. Front Royal, VA
March 14 West Knoxville Mtg West Knoxville, TN
April 4 New York Yearly Mtg, Rep Mtg: plenary. Poughkeepsie, NY
April 23 Live Oak Mtg: evening talk on healing. Houston, TX
April 24-26 Quakerland: Healing from Life’s Wounds. Ingram, TX
May 1-3 Powell House Spiritual Disciplines Healing. Old Chatham, NY
May 15-17 Pendle Hill: A Gather of Quaker Healers. Wallingford, PA
May 27 AIDS Project: stress reduction. Brattleboro, VT
May 30 AIDS Walk for Life: closing ceremony. Brattleboro, VT
June 4-7 Vermont PWA Coalition: workshops, mod Plainfield, VT
June 14 Providence Mtg: friends in need. Providence, RI
June 27 – July 4 FGC Healing Life’s Wounds, concert. River Falls, WI
August 3 – 9 Baltimore Yearly Mtg: Carey Lecture. Chambersburg, PA
October 2 – 4 Buddhist Dying Conf keynote, wrkshp Wolfville, NS
November 6 Santa Monica Mtg journal reading. Santa Monica, CA
November 7 – 8 Alive and Well Cmty Health Ctr Glendale, CA
November 11 – 15 Nat’l Gay/Lesbian Task Force Pittsburgh, PA
November 28 Killooleet Benefit Sing New York, NY
1997 Feb 5 - 11 Orlando Meeting workshop sessions Orlando FL
Feb 12 – 13 Palm Beach Meeting workshop Palm Beach FL
Feb 14 – 16 Friends for Lesbian & Gay Concerns Leesburg FL
Feb 26 Putney School AIDS lecture Putney VT
Feb 28 Putney Meeting meeting for healing Putney VT
Mar 14 Orange Grove Meeting reading Pasadena CA
Mar 15 – 16 Alive & Well workshop Glendale CA
April 9 Putney School Straight/Gay Alliance Putney VT
April 10 Ridgefield High School Straight/Gay Alliance Ridgefield CT
April 18 Meeting for Healing Putney Meeting Putney VT
May 8 – 9 VT AIDS Symposium Burlington VT
May 16 – 18 Fayetteville Quarterly Mtg Fayetteville AR
May 23 – 26 Pendle Hill weekend workshop Wallingford PA
May 31 Brattleboro AIDS Walk speaker Brattleboro VT
June 28 – July 5 Friends General Conf workshop Harrisonburg VA
July 24 – 27 VT People with AIDS Coalition workshops West Dover VT
August 2 – 7 New England Yearly Meeting Brunswick ME
Sept 12 Meeting for Healing Putney Meeting Putney VT
Sept 26–28 New Bedford Mtg concert/wksp/AIDS New Bedford MA
Oct 17 Meeting for Healing Putney Meeting Putney VT
1996 Feb 23 – 25 Purchase Quatr Beaver Farm Yorktown Heights NY
March 8 – 9 American Massage Therapy Assoc Framingham MA
March 19 Friends in need – mentoring, clients, etc Boston MA
March 22-23 Kenyon College AIDS Sem/concert/wkshp Gambier OH
April 5 – 7 Quaker Center Healing from Life Wounds Ben Lomond CA
April 13 New England Conference AIDS Massage Northampton MA
April 26 Gay/Straight Alliance Ridgefield High School Ridgefield CT
April 28 Hartford Meeting caregivers workshop West Hartford CT
May 3 – 5 Akala Point Healing Life’s Wounds Tantallon Nova Scotia
May 6 AIDS Coalition of Nova Scotia staff retreat Halifax Nova Scotia
May 6 Valley AIDS Group benefit concert Wolfville Nova Scotia
May 7 Akala Point Massage/Energy work for Trauma Tantallon NS
May 10 Released Friends Retreat spoken/silent ministry Putney VT
May 18 Concert w/John Bucchino Swarthmore Mtg Swarthmore PA
May 21 Friends in need – mentoring, clients Boston MA
June 2 South Berkshire Meeting – energy work Great Barrington MA
June 7 Brattleboro AIDS Project – Hot for Life retreat Marlboro VT
June 14 – 16 Pendle Hill Massage & Energy work Wallingford PA
June 29 – July 6 FGC Heal Life Wounds/Concert Hamilton Ontario
July 25 – 28 VT PWAC retreat grief cir/energy work West Dover VT
August 3 – 8 New England Yly Mtg Heal Life Wounds Brunswick ME
September 20 – 22 Southwest AIDS Massage Conf Tucson AZ
September 23 Shanti Tucson staff anti-burnout workshop Tucson AZ
October 18 Released Friends Retreat Putney Meeting Putney VT
October 21 – 24 Chrysalis Retreat w/AIDS spiritual group Newark NJ
October 25 Friends in need Kennet Sq PA
October 26 – 27 Morningside Meeting New York City NY
November 8–11 Gay Quaker Men Beaver Farm Yorktown Heights NY
November 15 Released Friends Retreat Putney Meeting Putney VT
November 17 Quaker City Meeting Claremont NH
November 23 Vermont Gay Town Meeting Brattleboro VT
1995 March 10 AIDS Project massage therapists Brattleboro, VT
March 29 AIDS Project staff retreat and refreshing Brattleboro, VT
April 23-26 Lubicon Nation, 1st Nations Res Little Buffalo, Alberta
April 27-30 Vancouver Meeting, workshops Vancouver, BC
May 1-2 Victoria Meeting, workshops Victoria, BC
May 4-5 Seattle Meeting, workshops Seattle, WA
May 19-21 Pendle Hill, Healing from Life's Wounds Wallingford, PA
June 9 Northern Yearly Meeting, keynote River Falls, WI
June 8-11 National AIDS Massage Conf Energy Work Mpls, MN
July 1-8 Friends General Conf Healing Life Wounds Kalamazoo, MI
July 27-30 Vermont People w/AIDS Coalition W. Dover, VT
July 19 Brattleboro AIDS Project- staff retreat Brattleboro, VT
August 5-10 New England Yearly Meeting workshps Brunswick, ME
Sept 29 Beacon Hill Prayer Group Jamaica Plain, MA
Oct 28 VT Coalition for Gay/Lesbian Rights Town Mtg. Montpelier,VT
Dec 28 Young Friends Mid-Winter NEYM Littleton, MA
1994 April 16 New England AIDS Massage Conf – Northampton MA
April 17 – 20 Friends with AIDS Boston MA
May 6 Whitman Walker Clinic – staff retreat Wash DC
May 7 Langly Hill Friends Mtg Anti-Burnout/Grieving McLean VA
May 8 Friends with AIDS Bethesda MD
May 9 – 12 Chrysalis Ministry AIDS retreat leader Perth Amboy NJ
May 27 – 29 Pendle Hill Healing from Life’s Wounds Wallingford PA
June 14 VT CARES – relaxation after office fire Burlington VT
July 2 – 9 Friends General Conf Healing Life’s Wounds Amherst MA
July 17 New England Yrly Mtg – children & touch Framingham MA
July 23 – 29 GAYLA Gay Men’s UU Retreat coor planner Saco ME
July 28 – 31 VT People w/AIDS Coalition Retreat Wilmington VT
August 6 – 13 Canadian Yearly Meeting Keynote Windsor NS
Sept 29 – Oct 2 Aids Medicine and Miracles plenary Boulder CO
Oct 5 Massage/Energy WorkTrauma mass therapists Fort Collins CO
Oct 14 – 16 Powell House Healing Life’s Wounds Old Chatham NY
Oct 28 – 30 Akala Point Conf Ctr retreat leader Indian Harbor NS
Nov 2 Brattleboro AIDS Project avoiding burnout Brattleboro VT
Nov 13 – 18 Quaker Center Healing Life Wounds Ben Lomond CA
Dec 28 New England Yrly Mtg Young Friends Retreat Peterboro NH
1993 Jan 29-31 Orlando Meeting Orlando FL
Feb 2-7 Palm Beach Meeting Palm Beach FL
Feb 12-15 FLGC Midwinter Gathering workshops Indiana
Feb 27 NEYM Jr High Allen's Neck MA
Mar 27-28 Esther Gally & Health Assoc. Cuernavaca, Mx DF
Mar 29- Apr 3 Casa de los Amigos Mexico City, Mx DF
Apr 8-11 South Central YM Bruceville, TX
Apr 22-27 March on Washington Wash, DC
May 2 Brattleboro AIDS Project Bratt. VT
May 5 Brattleboro AIDS Project Bratt. VT
May 28-31 Maine Gay Symposium Unity, ME
June 26 VT Gay Pride March Burl, VT
June 19 Putney Monthly Meeting Retreat Putney, VT
July 3-9 Friends General Gathering Stillwater, OK
July 9-11 National AIDS Massage Conference Mpls, MN
July 16-19 Pendle Hill Wallingford, PA
July 22-25 VT PWA Coalition Jay, VT
July 25-30 GAYLA Saco, ME
Aug 7-12 New England Yearly Meeting Amherst, MA
Sept 18 NEYM Junior YM Jaffery, NH
Sept 23-26 AIDS, Medicine, and Miracles Rhinebeck, NY
Oct 2 Beacon Hill Meeting Boston, MA
Oct 3 Malis Ouer & Cambodian refugees Lynn, MA
Oct 22-27 AIDS St John St John, New Brunswick
Oct 27-31 Akala Point Conference Center Halifax, Nova Scotia
Nov 5-8 Down East AIDS Network Lincolnville, ME
Nov 15 Brattleboro AIDS Project Brattleboro, VT
Nov 16 Brattleboro AIDS Project Brattleboro, VT
Nov 23 Brattleboro AIDS Project Brattleboro, VT
Dec 27 - Jan 1 Quaker Center Year End workshop Ben Lomond, CA
1992 January 18 American Massage Therapy Asso Waterville, Maine
January 19 Portland Friends Meeting Portland, Maine
January 25 Sandwich Quarterly Meeting South Dartmouth, MA
February 7-9 Atlanta Friends Meeting Atlanta, Georgia
February 14-17 Friends Lesbian Gay Concern MidWinter Boston, MA
February 20 School for International Training Brattleboro, Vermont
March 6-8 Woolman Hill Conference Center Deerfield, MA
March 13-15 Minneapolis Friends Meeting Minneapolis, Minnesota
March 25-29 Southeastern Yearly Meeting Brooksville, Florida
May 2 Marcia Levison & Associates Burlington, Vermont
May 7 HIV Support Group Montpelier, Vermont
May 11 Brattleboro AIDS Project Brattleboro, Vermont
May 20 Pendle Hill Wallingford, Pennsylvania
May 22-23 Gay Quaker Men's Gathering Yorktown Heights, NY
May 24 Ferry Beach Park Association Ferry Beach, Maine
June 5-7 AIDS, Medicine, and Miracles Conference Boulder, CO
June 12-14 Boulder School of Massage Therapy Boulder, Colorado
June 27-July 4 Friends General Conference Gathering Canton, NY
July 22-26 Illinois Yearly Meeting McNab, Illinois
July 31-August 2 Vermont People with AIDS Coalition Brattleboro, VT
August 8-14 U U Gay Men's Conf, Ferry Beach Park Saco, Maine
August 22-28 Healing From Life Wounds Ferry Beach Park Saco, ME
October 9-12 Names Project AIDS Memorial Quilt Washington, D.C.
November 13-15 Pendle Hill workshop Wallingford, PA
1991 Feb 9 National Childs Right's Alliance Leverett, MA
Feb 15-18 Friends for Lesbian Gay Concerns Wash DC
Feb 23 Judy Hyde & assoc Chaplin, CT
March 16 Cambodian refugees- Malis Ouer Lynn, MA
March 17 Killooleet Sing Benefit Boston, MA
April 3-7 West Texas AIDS task Force Lubbock, TX
April 23-25 Hunter and Ahavia Camden, NJ
April 27 Gayla planning mtg Saco, ME
May 2-5 AIDS, Medicine, & Miracles Boulder, CO
May 11-12 Boulder School of Massage Boulder, CO
May 24-27 Gay Quaker Men's Gathering Yorktown Heights, NY
July 1-6 Friends General Conference Boone, NC
July 13 VT AIDS Counsel Lake Morley, VT
July 18 Putney Meeting, Meeting for Healing Putney, VT
Aug 3-8 NEYM Amherst, MA
Aug 3-9 Gayla gay men’s retreat Saco, ME
Aug 17-23 Ferry Beach workshop Saco, ME
Sept 13 PWA Coalition Retreat Burlington, VT
Oct 4-6 Pendle Hill Wallingford,PA
Nov 9 Brattleboro AIDS Project Brattleboro,VT
Dec 8 Sanford UU Church sermon, workshop Sanford, ME
1990 Feb 16-19 FLGC Midwinter – workshops Phil, PA
Feb 23- March 5 15th St. & Northside Meeting – workshops NY, NY
March 30- June 6 Pendle Hill- resident spring term Wallingford, PA
May 7 Nancy Pocock's home- work on refugees Toronto, Ont
May 8 Toronto Refugee Affairs Committee workshop Toronto, Ont
May 31 Gay Quaker Men's Retreat Yorktown Heights, NY
June 7-10 Living in Recovery with AIDS- workshops Cinn, OH
June 15-17 Friends World Committee for Consultation speaker MA
July 1-7 Friends General Conference closing plenary Northfield, MN
July 28- Aug 3 Gayla- workshops, grieving circle, concert Saco, ME
Aug 11-16 New England Yearly Meeting workshops Amherst, MA
Sept 7-9 Powell House- massage for trauma Old Chatham, NY
Sept 17 PWA support group- relaxation & massage Cinn, OH
Sept 20 Penn Valley Mtg/Path Ministries-workshop Kansas City, MS
Sept 29-30 Boulder School of Massage- workshop Boulder, CO
Oct 12-14 Pendle Hill- workshop Wallingford, PA
Nov 9 Brattleboro AIDS Project- buddy training Bratt, VT
Dec 17 Putney Monthly Meeting, Meeting for Healing Putney, VT
1989 Jan 6&7 The Crossing Phil, PA
Jan 8 Friends Meeting of Washington, mtg 4 learn Wash, DC
Feb 17-20 FLGC Mpls, MN
Feb 24-27 15th ST and Morningside Meeting NY, NY
March 4 Cambridge Meeting Cambridge, MA
March 18 Wilton Meeting Wilton, CT
March 21 Purchase Meeting Purchase, NY
March 23-25 Toronto Meeting Toronto, Ont
March 26-28 Project Reconciliation, Kingston Prison Kingston, Ont
April 14-17 Body Dynamics, NYSSMMT NY,NY
April 20-23 Gayla planning meeting Saco, ME
April 27-30 AIDS Medicine & Miracles Boulder, CO
May 5 Boulder School of Massage Therapy Boulder CO
May 7 Rocky Mtn Peace Ctr. Boulder CO
May 8 Colorado AIDS Project Denver CO
May 8 Positive Positive support group Boulder CO
May 28 UU Church Madison, CT
June 2-4 2nd National Conference of AIDS massage Chicago, IL
June 5 Northside Quaker Meeting Chicago IL
June 23-25 Powell House Old Chatham,NY
June 26-30 Toronto Mtg, Canadian Center for the Treatment of Torture, Toronto, Ont
July 1-8 Friends General Conference Canton, NY
July 8-13 Kingston Penitentiary, mens/womens prisons Kingston, Ont
July 29- Aug 5 Gayla Gay Men’s UU retreat Saco, ME
Aug 15-19 NEYM Amherst, MA
Sept 19-20 Nancy in hospital Portland, ME
Oct 3 Mary Chatlos' support grp, pwa buddies Wash, DC
Oct 30 Sullivan County AIDS Task Force SC, NY
Nov 5 CT Assoc of Prevention Professionals Hebron, CT
Nov 25 Killooleet Sing benefit NY, NY
Nov 26-Dec 4 2nd Interna’l Conf on Torture San Jose, Costa Rica
Dec 9-23 Keith Gann- primary caregiver Mpls, MN
1988 July Sang main stage Cincinnati Gay Pride March.
July Gayla Unitarian Gay Men’s Gathering Saco ME
1987 July Friends General Conference healing trauma Oberlin OH
July Gayla Unitarian Gay Men’s Gathering Saco ME
1986 Feb AIDS Education NY Prisons Dannemora, Saranac Lake NY
July Gayla Unitarian Gay Men’s Gathering Saco ME
1985 Feb Oberlin College Coffee House Concert AIDS Ed Oberlin OH
Feb Friends for Lesbian & Gay Concerns concert Cleveland OH
May Gay Men’s Retreat Rowe Conference Center Rowe MA
1984 April Graduated Boulder School Massage Therapy Boulder CO
1983 Begin work people with AIDS- Oct
1982 Begin trauma work – drugged, abducted, rape/torture teen
